One of the things I appreciated about our friendship is we could go a long time without speaking, then pick up right where we left off. She was this way with all friends—genuine and caring.
Kyleigh reached out to me this past year to reconnect, and I will always be thankful she did. We rarely went a day after without texting or calling, and although she’d praise me for strengthening her, she strengthened me. We would discuss life, every messy crevice of it, and she would tell me it would all be okay, and I’d feel assured that somehow it would be. And whenever I’ve been tempted to be bitter, angry at the world, I would speak with her or remember her words about me, who she believed I was and will be, her assurance of me as a loving, “Big Twin”, and the anger would disperse, and I felt strengthened to be that kind, loving person she viewed me as… I will miss the scriptures we shared together, her jokes, openly discussing anything and everything, her energy… her. I will cherish our memories, even the faded 18 year old ones, and the ones of massaging her feet, brushing her hair, and holding her hand. There are not words to describe the honor it has been to be her friend, and I’m thankful we left nothing unsaid. She’s worth grieving.
See you on the Otherside, my twin. I love you, too.